fix(vue): preserve query parent spans, and add disableQueryInvalidation flag to Command config for background saves

[patroza]

Summary

• restore legacy TanStack query parent-span handoff via query meta/updateMeta
• capture parent spans for atom query refetch/invalidation before refresh
• add regression tests for TanStack and atom query refetch span parenting
• add patch changeset for @effect-app/vue

Validation

• pnpm --filter @effect-app/vue check
• pnpm --filter @effect-app/vue test:run query-span.test.ts
• pnpm --filter @effect-app/vue lint-fix
• pnpm check

Note: repo-wide pnpm lint-fix still fails in packages/effect-app because its lint-fix script invokes an unsupported oxlint --type-aware entrypoint; the Vue package lint-fix completed successfully.

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@effect-app/cli

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effect-app

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@effect-app/eslint-codegen-model

npm i https://pkg.pr.new/effect-app/libs/@effect-app/eslint-codegen-model@809

@effect-app/eslint-shared-config

npm i https://pkg.pr.new/effect-app/libs/@effect-app/eslint-shared-config@809

@effect-app/infra

npm i https://pkg.pr.new/effect-app/libs/@effect-app/infra@809

@effect-app/vue

npm i https://pkg.pr.new/effect-app/libs/@effect-app/vue@809

@effect-app/vue-components

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